This movie will help.
"Holly Kennedy (Hilary Swank), a young widow living in New York, has just lost her beloved husband Gerry (Gerard Butler) to a brain tumor. Inconsolable, Holly finds that Gerry left for her a series of letters to help cope with the grief. As months pass, Holly discovers new messages from Gerry encouraging her to go on living. And while Holly's friends fear the letters will mire her in the past, they, in fact, give her strength for the future."
Not that I needed the reminder, but this movie reminded me how uncertain life can be. After viewing, did some thinking. Added two things to my to do list. Hope - no plan - to work on them this week.